Ihlobo, ukwindla noma impelasonto eyengeziwe?
Ngidinga uzakwethu wokuhamba wezindawo okusazovunyelwa kuzo, ukugeza.
Marco, 51 (Indoda)

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Sawubona, ngemuva kwezingxabano ngonyaka odlule kanye namaholide ambalwa ahlelelwe lonyaka nabantwana, umbuzo uthi "kanjani manje"? Bonke abangane banemindeni noma sebezihlelele, ngakho-ke ngisaba ngingenalo uhambo ehlotyeni nasekwindla. Ngingazicabanga nami ngizihlalela nje ngempelasonto yokuzijabulisa. Kodwa konke lokhu ngeke ngikwenze ngedwa. Ngakho-ke ngingajabula kakhulu ukuthola umngane ongazihluphi, olentombazane. Ehlotyeni (Julayi/Agasti) ngizocabanga ukuchitha izinsuku ezingu-12-14 ngiphumule echibini nasolwandle. Ukudla okumnandi, mhlawumbe nomunye noma omunye umsebenzi wokuzivocavoca ngosuku noma ukuvakashela, kusihlwa i-cocktail, ubhiya, noma iwayini nomngani omkhulu. Indawo yokuphumula ayibalulekile kakhulu. Kwesikhathi samaholidi emvula, ngingacabangela uhambo lokuya emadolobheni amaningi noma isonto emkhunjini wokuya olwandle. Ukubona into, ukuphumelela, kodwa kungabi nzima kakhulu. Ukuphumula ngokuphelele kungaba lokho okufunwa ekuphumuleni kwakho. Noma ngabe kusegumbini elinama-whirlpool ayimfihlo ne-sauna kanye nokuziphakelela noma ihhotela lokuphumula. Kusukela ngoLwesihlanu kuya ngeSonto ukuphumula, ukuphumula, ukujabulela isikhathi esihle ndawonye, ukuba nokulungile ukuze uthathe amandla phakathi nesikhathi esifanayo. Ngingathanda futhi ukuzama iholidi le-FKK noma uhlobo olukhethekile lweholidi lasehlobo. Ngineminyaka engu-50, angibhemi, ngisebenzisa umzimba kancane futhi ngivela esifundeni saseRuhr. Angiyena umuntu wokuthi "cha ngiyathukuthela", kodwa ekuqaleni ngiyazibamba, ngaphambi kokuba ngizibonakalise. Uma uzizwa uthanda uhlobo oluthile lweholidi, ngicela ungithinte - noma ngabe uneminyaka emingaki, nesimo somzimba esinjani, noma lapho uvela khona - okubalulekile ukuzwana nokuba nemibono efanayo ngeholidi elingase libe khona ndawonye. Ngenxa yokuxhumana, singakwazi ukuxoxa futhi sihlanganise konke. Ngakho-ke nginoburharha, ngicela ungithinte!
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