Abalingani Bokuhamba abakwa-„mnandi"

Kokugcina lapho ngiyobhekisa khona kanye nendawo engiyoholala kuyo kuvulekele mina ngokuphelele - nginomdlandla wokuzama izinto ezintsha futhi ngithanda ukukhuthazwa. Noma ngabe izophela ibanhlalakahle njengokuphumula nokujabulela, isibonelo ngokuzijabulisa, ukudla okumnandi, nokude...

Umfazi oneminyaka engu-45 ubudala, ongumFulentshi nomSwidi, okhe wangena eJalimani muva nje, ulifuna ngempela ukuphila futhi enothando lokuhambela izindawo, ufuna ukuthola umhlaba futhi abelane ngamava abantu abahle. Ngithanda imihlangano eqotho...

Sawubona nonke, nginguRobert, ngineminyaka engu-41 ubudala, ngingedwa futhi ngifuna uzakwethu wokuhamba wesifazane othakazelisayo ukuze ngibe neholide elihle neliphuzile e-Italy ngo-Agasti. Ngithanda kakhulu iLake Garda, i-Italian...

Indoda eyindoda ikhulunga owesifazane, ize ibe yodwa naye! Ndingumuntu othanda ukuhamba kakhulu, ozimisele, ozivocavoca, onobuhle futhi ozihlonipha, ozodlula isonto elihle kwenye indawo lapho kufudumele kulo nyaka...

Ukuxhumanisa uhambo ukuya eHurghada, eCairo naseGiza - ngakho-ke ukuhlanganiswa kokuzilibazisa elwandle kanye nezokuvakasha ezithokozisayo ezindaweni ezidumile. Ngijabulela ilanga, ukudla okumnandi nengxoxo enhle futhi ngingathanda ukwabelana ngalesi sikhathi esikhethekile nomuntu...

Ngifuna umuntu omuhle ozohlala nami ebusika noma isikhathi eside. Kuhle ukuba sobabili, futhi singathola ukuthi singahlangana yini ngocingo lokuqala. Inja ayiyona inkinga, ngike ngaba nenja kudala...

Sawubona, ngifuna uzakwethu wokuhamba ozothokozelwa, ozolile futhi okhulumayo kahle, kungcono kakhulu omncane kakhulu oneminyaka eyi-18 kuye kweyangu-45, ozacile futhi othandekayo, ukuze kuhanjelwe uhambo olungakavunyelwanga ngesikhathi esishiwo. Kungcono ngempela ngempelasonto ende noma ...

Sawubona, ngingumuntu ongashadile eneminyaka engu-36 ubudala.Lena yikhona okokuqala ngingasebenzisa le ndlela ukufuna umngane wokuhamba wesifazane, othandekayo, obhekile, nethembekile, engingachitha nawo iholidi elimnandi.Kubalulekile kimina ukuthi zombili izinhlangothi zizizwe zikahle futhi ziphephile....

Igama lami nginguJosef, ngineminyaka engu-65 ubudala futhi sengithathe umhlalaphansi. Ngisakhanyekile engqondweni nasemzimbeni, ngithakasele izinto zangaphandle (okwenzeka emhlabeni) kanye nasezintweni zangaphakathi (ngamanje ngizokwenza okuthile okuhlobene nami...)

Ngicabanga ukuthi uhambo lube mnandi kakhulu uma luhlanganyelwe. Ukuthola idolobha elisha, ukulahleka emigwaqweni yalo, ukuzama ukudla ongakujwayele, ukuhleka ngaphandle kwesizathu... konke lokhu kunencazelo ekhethekile uma kwenziwa njengombhangqwana. Ndingu...

Ngiyathanda ukuhamba ngamaholide amafushane ngaso sonke isikhathi, ngalokho ngifuna umuntu engingahamba naye. Ngihlala enqoleni yami kodwa futhi ngihlala emahotela amahle. Ngivulekele izinto eziningi futhi ngiyathanda ukuyiswa ezindaweni ezintsha...

Sawubona, ngiyindoda ezihloniphayo, eyothando enemizwa emihle ngakho konke okuhle empilweni. Bathi angibi ngubi futhi nginemvelo ejabulisayo, enokwethemba. Ngithanda izingxoxo ezinhle, izikhathi zokuphumula...

Ngifuna uzakwethu ohamba nami womuntu (weminyaka 40-70) ongachitha nami isikhathi seholide eMaspalomas/Playa del Ingles noma eduze lapho, uma kunjalo ngabe kuseningizimu. (Mhlawumbe ngizosa ngivela eWien). Indawo yokuhlala ingaba i-bungalow, noma ihhotela noma futhi...

Ngingadumisa kusukela ngo-May kuya zingama-20 kuNcwaba. Ngithanda i-Italy ???????? ngempela, kodwa ngivuleleke ngokuphelele ukukhetha indawo esiyoyihambela ndawonye, ​​ngemva kokuba sesithandana kancane. Okubalulekile kimi ngukwazi ukuzizwa, ukuxhumana kanye...